Here I give you a snippet of an interview with Dr. Walter Riso is excellent, take note:
A narcissist breaks the ethical structure of the relationship, just wants to receive love and adulation. Do not give anything in return and the couple can get into depression. What attracts people? "Those that are considered socially undesirable and attractive and looking for someone to give them status. Immature people also engage or co-dependent, seeking recipients of affection as narcissists. It's like putting together a workaholic working with an operator," Walter Riso says psychologist. Narcissists come to the consultation pressured by her partner, after an ultimatum. "If they ask for direct help is when they pass through a critical stage, as a demotion, and depressed." Al paranoid missing value is the basic trust in the couple, thinking that it will never intentionally hurt. "Without that certainty can not be, it would be like living with the potential enemy," said Iris Moon. They fall in love with people with social phobia, which are ideal to paranoid because he does not like people, although in his case for fear of ridicule.
The sociopath or antisocial, lovely in the phase of conquest, it is very dangerous. Go to the other as an object. "It's like a predator who has to survive in a jungle, believes that the weak deserve to be the victim and tells his friend: if you hit it because you've looked at, "Riso said." It's a classic case of violent love that underlie most of battered women. "Conquer the heart of those who seek someone to defend them in life, others who think they are brave or addicted to danger. histrionic Love is not exclusive to women: they are people seductive theatrical and exhibitionistic behavior, they see intimacy where none exists . They require constant attention and are like a bottomless pit: The more love you give, the more affection claim, "says Riso.
The obsessive's driver and his partner considered inefficient. They are a good match for many because it is responsible, but often have sexual problems and to express emotions. As you can see that your problem may lose the person they love, have an easier treatment. The passive-aggressive, has a conflict because they need and at the same time rejects the authority of his partner. Sabotage the relationship and serve no commitment to the couple, but they want to attract co-dependent protection. The black hole is the schizoid affective. Maximum exposure is indifference. "The antisocial despises you, you have no value to him, the narcissist despises, worth less than I, and the schizoid, not exist," he says Riso.
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