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Thursday, January 29, 2009
Misty Mundae Hatdcore
Over the years, I realized that regardless of the approach in which the psychologist's role is addressed, the importance of bringing relief to the problem, dysfunction, disorder, whatever you want to express the significant event we express a patient in a query, in a hallway in a hospital bed, wherever! is important to keep current, so I created the initiative to create this blog Psychology-current, second Part I realize the importance of fostering links with professionals from other specialties, such as doctors, psychiatrists, oncologists, among others .... in order to address comprehensively and effectively the current status of a patient, a family, to intervene in a crisis in order to achieve effectiveness and positive outcomes of care, but need to strengthen existing networks among psychologists, feedback in born there PSYCHOLOGISTS INTERNATIONAL RED http://red-de-psicologia.com/ created for this purpose and in order to join in for better quality in our work as we love PSYCHOLOGY! in which you can create a profile, expand your contacts within the guild psychologists, comment, create blogs, post documents, analyze cases, upload photos, videos, news, news, trivia, etc. ... so l @ s invite you to join this network, we are all are welcome!
Wednesday, January 7, 2009
For Dark Circles Nc Or Nw
How to distinguish between a crisis and the end of a relationship?
Love does not prevent the crisis, but it can become a major element of support to seek a solution. The way to overcome the problems depends on a couple, referring to a stage of conflict, more talk of a crisis or what was perceived as the beginning of the end. The way in which each partner faces problems that period due to factors such as emotional maturity, the ability to manage conflict, the duration of the relationship, the networks have staff or when you are. Fear of change
no fixed criteria to draw upon to determine whether a relationship plays and an end. Furthermore, the more durable has been the union and when the break affects more people, the children are arguing that many people put forward to continue to live, despite the crisis ", the harder it will decide to break. Arguably, the moment when a relationship fails to provide members of the couple that set of elements that affect and emotion-led, safety, sexual enjoyment is reached ...-, turning point in which to bring about change.
Recognize if you are going through a difficult period with severe or if we are at the beginning of the end of the relationship becomes an arduous task for members of the couple as they engaged in a myriad of emotions, feelings and sensations, it is difficult to calm enough to make a quiet reflection that leads them to clarify at what point in the relationship found. It is not surprising that they produce delusions, more or less conscious, which arise as a resistance to change, either to reconsider the couple and move forward with changes, or to start definitely a separation.
Simple "crisis or separation?
Depending on how you face a crisis, how to behave the partners at this stage, the union will be strengthened and be the first phase of the end. That is, before a couple's conflict phase the question is not "Is this the end?" But "I want it to?, Am I interested in continuing with the commitment involved in this relationship?". In short, a slump is only a crisis if overcome, but will become a separation if the marriage ends. The answer to some questions may give us clues that help us make a decision at that critical juncture: Do you love? Do we look together in the same direction, we same goal? Do I feel deep interest in another person? Is the desire? Do I have total confidence in the other? What in the relationship itself? Do I reflect and I am committed to see what I can contribute to the other person and our relationship to improve it?
In crisis phase alters our emotional state, which is why we present the scope of decisions, especially if you choose to end the relationship. No two people are separated, but sometimes a family with children, a whole network of relations and friends, economic dependency, so if the couple is braked to prevent reflection prosper, it should go to one or a specialist in a couple, that unlock the situation and enable space for reflection satisfies the guarantees desirable. Introduce balance and establish a protocol to help the couple to make better decisions. To strengthen the couple
We must use or develop these skills:
accept that our life is entirely our responsibility. Do not expect the other partner makes us happy. Our happiness depends, above all, ourselves. No mistake.
know that we need not address the other person's life, to seek solutions, giving advice and setting the standard for how to live your life.
Learn to listen. To do this we must stop what they're doing, to empty other thoughts to distract our attention and try to put in place to understand how it feels.
learn to talk. Our view, ways of understanding and grasp of reality are not absolute truth, but only ours.
Learning to agree. Mine and yours must be considered and discussed to get to define "our."
Learning to share. Give each other, ask how you are, what bothers you, what you want and want.
Learning to ask. Show our vulnerability is the best proof of love, and not teach it to anyone.
Dedicate specific time for the couple. Share
hobbies, leisure time, fantasies and illusions, as well as accompany the sad times, hard and painful. Share
economy. Part of the relationship.
Learn to use conflict and crisis, to learn more about ourselves, see what we need and what pain they cause in our family. They are a springboard for development, not stagnation that leads nowhere. Talk as necessary, so that the problem was not entrenched. There is no greater disaster than silence. Mimar
proudly partner. Sex, fondling and "I love you" have to say must be made explicit. Not worth the understatement.
To dramatize a separation ...
the pair is broken, not all of our personal life.
is a time to deal with change and risks that affect us and convulse. It is advisable to seek help from competent people (friends or professional) so unconditionally, listen and join us in this journey, which may (or may not) be hard.
is a stage of life that will, to be followed by another or others. We must not cling to the past: that would stop our lives, and is much ahead.
Like any loss, have their phases: mourning, grief, disbelief that we have been able to spend, anger and rage, the need to blame ... It is normal for something like this happen to us, and we must assume.
Not everything is negative. We think (Without obsessing) about what was lost. But it is best to seek the positive, improving our lives with the separation. Let
self-critical balance: how was the relationship, what we fail us ... So learn and avoid making such mistakes in the future.
must save what is good for, supporting it, move forward without anger and closing chapter. But above all to open new chapter. 
Love does not prevent the crisis, but it can become a major element of support to seek a solution. The way to overcome the problems depends on a couple, referring to a stage of conflict, more talk of a crisis or what was perceived as the beginning of the end. The way in which each partner faces problems that period due to factors such as emotional maturity, the ability to manage conflict, the duration of the relationship, the networks have staff or when you are. Fear of change
no fixed criteria to draw upon to determine whether a relationship plays and an end. Furthermore, the more durable has been the union and when the break affects more people, the children are arguing that many people put forward to continue to live, despite the crisis ", the harder it will decide to break. Arguably, the moment when a relationship fails to provide members of the couple that set of elements that affect and emotion-led, safety, sexual enjoyment is reached ...-, turning point in which to bring about change.
Recognize if you are going through a difficult period with severe or if we are at the beginning of the end of the relationship becomes an arduous task for members of the couple as they engaged in a myriad of emotions, feelings and sensations, it is difficult to calm enough to make a quiet reflection that leads them to clarify at what point in the relationship found. It is not surprising that they produce delusions, more or less conscious, which arise as a resistance to change, either to reconsider the couple and move forward with changes, or to start definitely a separation.
Simple "crisis or separation?
Depending on how you face a crisis, how to behave the partners at this stage, the union will be strengthened and be the first phase of the end. That is, before a couple's conflict phase the question is not "Is this the end?" But "I want it to?, Am I interested in continuing with the commitment involved in this relationship?". In short, a slump is only a crisis if overcome, but will become a separation if the marriage ends. The answer to some questions may give us clues that help us make a decision at that critical juncture: Do you love? Do we look together in the same direction, we same goal? Do I feel deep interest in another person? Is the desire? Do I have total confidence in the other? What in the relationship itself? Do I reflect and I am committed to see what I can contribute to the other person and our relationship to improve it?
In crisis phase alters our emotional state, which is why we present the scope of decisions, especially if you choose to end the relationship. No two people are separated, but sometimes a family with children, a whole network of relations and friends, economic dependency, so if the couple is braked to prevent reflection prosper, it should go to one or a specialist in a couple, that unlock the situation and enable space for reflection satisfies the guarantees desirable. Introduce balance and establish a protocol to help the couple to make better decisions. To strengthen the couple
We must use or develop these skills:
accept that our life is entirely our responsibility. Do not expect the other partner makes us happy. Our happiness depends, above all, ourselves. No mistake.
know that we need not address the other person's life, to seek solutions, giving advice and setting the standard for how to live your life.
Learn to listen. To do this we must stop what they're doing, to empty other thoughts to distract our attention and try to put in place to understand how it feels.
learn to talk. Our view, ways of understanding and grasp of reality are not absolute truth, but only ours.
Learning to agree. Mine and yours must be considered and discussed to get to define "our."
Learning to share. Give each other, ask how you are, what bothers you, what you want and want.
Learning to ask. Show our vulnerability is the best proof of love, and not teach it to anyone.
Dedicate specific time for the couple. Share
hobbies, leisure time, fantasies and illusions, as well as accompany the sad times, hard and painful. Share
economy. Part of the relationship.
Learn to use conflict and crisis, to learn more about ourselves, see what we need and what pain they cause in our family. They are a springboard for development, not stagnation that leads nowhere. Talk as necessary, so that the problem was not entrenched. There is no greater disaster than silence. Mimar
proudly partner. Sex, fondling and "I love you" have to say must be made explicit. Not worth the understatement.
To dramatize a separation ...
the pair is broken, not all of our personal life.
is a time to deal with change and risks that affect us and convulse. It is advisable to seek help from competent people (friends or professional) so unconditionally, listen and join us in this journey, which may (or may not) be hard.
is a stage of life that will, to be followed by another or others. We must not cling to the past: that would stop our lives, and is much ahead.
Like any loss, have their phases: mourning, grief, disbelief that we have been able to spend, anger and rage, the need to blame ... It is normal for something like this happen to us, and we must assume.
Not everything is negative. We think (Without obsessing) about what was lost. But it is best to seek the positive, improving our lives with the separation. Let
self-critical balance: how was the relationship, what we fail us ... So learn and avoid making such mistakes in the future.
must save what is good for, supporting it, move forward without anger and closing chapter. But above all to open new chapter.
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